Wednesday, December 29, 2010

I have five fingers!



So I got the most amazing shoes today. They're called Vibram fivefingers, and they're unlike anything you've ever worn before! I don't even want to take them off! They're for running and climbing and walking and yoga and everything else! They can even be water shoes! It feels like I am barefoot. I love them!

Friday, December 24, 2010

Ho ho ho!!

It's Christmas Eve! I just love Christmas, even if it can't be white. All the presents are wrapped and under the tree. It looks so pretty! I think it's funny how we (as a society) build up to Christmas for like three months, starting before even Halloween, and then it's just one day...and it's gone. That's why I like to think of the whole month of December as Christmas instead of just the one day. :D

I usually know almost everything that I'm going to open on Christmas morning before...well, Christmas morning, but not this year! Yay! I hate when there are no surprises! That ruins all the fun, right? So this year, I'm a bit more excited than usual partly because of the added suspense, and also because I'm cooking the entire Christmas dinner! I love cooking! What are we having?

Well, first of all, each of the 4 people in my family gets their own cornish hen all to themselves! We could've gotten some giant turkey or something, but everything is cuter when it's mini-sized! Then we're going to have rice and mushroom stuffing to go with those. There's a cherry cheesecake cooling at this very moment, and there will also be green bean casserole.

We don't always get to spend Christmas with our big family like a lot of people do because they live so far away! This time, they were all getting together in Texas. It takes 2 full days to drive to Texas (yes, drive). Also, we couldn't really afford that right now, especially with redoing the house as I talked about yesterday. I have been away for Christmas for the past 2 years, so it's nice to be home this year anyway. :)

Have a wonderful day today, tomorrow, and every day after that! Happy Holidays!

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow!

If only. *sigh* If you can believe it, I actually had to turn the *air conditioning* in my car on yesterday! December 22, even in Charleston, should not be that warm! My, oh my...

We're making progress on the redecorating going on in my house since it's break and all. I think we've decided on a color scheme consisting of blue, green, and brown for the living room. My dad and I sanded the floor some more today. We're finally getting our wood floors back! Personally, I like them much better than carpet.

The other day I was watching tv (this isn't completely off topic, though it sounds like it) and the picture just wasn't that clear, and I couldn't figure out why. When it got turned off I could see a nice, fine coat of sawdust on it. It was lovely. :P

We've never done this before, so I'm just finding out how ridiculously expensive decorating is! It's horrible! We bought this one pillow for our couch, just to base the colors for paint and such off of it, and it was 13 dollars! ONE pillow. Yeah. The price for all the fixtures for one large window (actually 2 windows beside each other) can get bank-breakingly high as well. Let's see...

2 window scarves: $20
1 curtain rod: &20
2 sets of decent blinds: $40
2 sets of the actual curtains: $30

One cozy room: PRICELESS ;)

So when it's almost 100 bucks to dress the windows in one room of our house, plus it's Christmas, plus we're painting walls, adding decorations, redoing floors, getting a rug, AND doing a couple other rooms, too...yeah, it can get stifling. Slowly but surely...hopefully it will be done before I leave for college so I can see it all! I'm excited for it to be done!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

So...

So I've been thinking...I should really get back in to this blogging thing, huh?

I guess I have to start somewhere, so here's the icebreaker (and not a very original one :P):

It's almost Christmas! I love Christmas for several reasons:

I have an excuse to give people random (well actually, not so random...) gifts, and I get to see the happy looks on their faces that I caused!

I have an excuse to receive afore mentioned gifts, and be made happy myself. :D

It is cold! And I love the cold. I love getting all bundled up in a cute coat or two with a hat, scarf, and pair of gloves. I love hot drinks (mostly coffee). Hot weather makes me want to die. It's like...pancakes without syrup! :O I guess that's one reason I should try really hard to follow the Lord and go to Heaven. Because if I don't like the hot weather here, well...yeah.

I get out of school. This is a big factor of the joy I find in winter. Speaking of, My mom and I went to Barry's Jewelers today and ordered my class ring! How exciting!

There are LOTS of parties. Just last weekend, we had our annual ladies cookie swap at church! I've been exercising extra hard to burn them off. ;) There's also the sock party, where I get to come home with a new pair of ugly socks every year! Of course, we might hold that one off till March since this time of year is so busy and all.

I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and Santa leaves fantastic things under the tree for you!

Monday, September 6, 2010

I've been distant...literally.

I've been distant in that I haven't posted anything since...August 17th. I've been distant in that I haven't posted anything other than 30 Days of Music since...July 22. I just haven't felt like it. I haven't had any sort of motivation to blog and had nothing I really was dying to say.

I've been distant in that I went to South America! :D And lots of other places for that matter.

And I'm finally going to be mailing out my Guyana report letters within the next few days! Yay! Guyana letter written: CHECK!

So...


"Dear friends,

The Guyana Mission trip this year was a huge success! I want to thank you once again for the donations, prayers, thoughts, and moral support that you provided to me and others involved in this work! Because of the generosity of others, there was over $1000 in extra funds that we were able to give to the Amelia’s Ward church of Christ to further the Lord’s work in Guyana! I hope you will consider continuation of this support in coming years. I am more grateful than words could ever express for the worldwide network of loving Christians that I am a part of.


As you probably already know, I and fifteen other Americans spent seven days in Linden, Guyana at the house of preacher Nigel Milo of the Amelia’s Ward church of Christ. On Sunday, the men taught classes and preached sermons at the Amelia’s Ward church of Christ as well as the Burnham Drive church of Christ in a nearby area. Monday through Friday, we had a pretty regular schedule. At 10 o’clock, we and some brethren from Amelia’s Ward met at the church building to begin door-knocking. We were spilt up into several groups and, together, we conducted over 50 home Bible studies throughout the course of the week!

In addition, several correspondence courses were started. At 2 o’clock, we returned to the house for a wonderful lunch prepared by Nigel’s wife Jasmine and her mother Birney. If there were any Bible studies that had been set up for a time after that, those groups would go back out to conduct them.

Each night, there were maturity classes at Amelia’s Ward that addressed the subject of growing as a Christian in many different ways. The children studied a different story about David each night.

There were classes for children under 6, 6-12, teenagers, women, and men taught by the Americans. The attendance was absolutely amazing! The 6-12 year old class had to move benches outside because the classroom was too small for the up to 40 students that were present in that age group alone!

During the week, there were 4 souls added to the body of Christ through baptism!

Each one was a beautiful sight to see, and I felt so privileged to be able to witness them! Although there were 50 Bible studies and 4 baptisms, the seed was planted for all of the others. They may not have responded to the Lord’s invitation while we were there, but maybe they will weeks, months, or even years later. God always gives the increase.

Though, we go over there to help the Guyanese, I think it is just as much of a help and encouragement to us! I cannot thank you enough for providing me with this marvelous opportunity! I love you all so much!

In Christian love,

Bethany Rose Iversen"



Apart from the more professional-looking letter, here are some more pictures. :)




Oh my, oh my... :) Well on the left is Megan from my congregation, then Kierra, then Mrs. Beckie (who is met in Guyana. Love her!!) and Aesha (who I also love and met in Guyana!)



That, on the left, is Brother Nigel Milo...making a funny face. :D Heehee



On Monday, it rained while we were door-knocking. Usually, Guyana rain last five minutes and is gone, but it rained aaaaall morning this time. I loved it because that meant it wasn't hot. It was actually a bit cold. One thing we ran into, though, was out Bibles getting wet. And this was one person's solution. :P



Nertz was our favorite past time when we had a bit of free time and weren't napping or studying like those behind us on the couch. :)



The coffee pot broke halfway through the week, but we made do with what we had.



This little girl was so adorable! I adore her! She looooved taking pictures with my camera. It made me a little nervous, but it's still in one piece. :D She is Brother Cy's daughter, Shariah. He's the preacher at Burnham Drive church of Christ.



See all those bottles of bugspray sitting on the ledge in the upper right hand corner of the picture? Those are the already used up bottles. Did we still get bit? Yes.



And last...Macy emailing...SOMEONE...*at least* three times a day...every day. -_-




I can't wait till next year! It was a great mission trip!

~Bef

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Favorite Band? Um...

This is very out of the ordinary for me. To have a favorite band, that is. I have always just picked and chosen songs from various artists, not bought whole cds. I usually don't like very many songs from the same band because most bands just don't seem to be talented enough to make that many great songs. There is one exception for me.

THE BEATLES! :D <3

I know lots of people think the Beatles are over rated and only got the credit they did because they were 'the new thing' or whatever, but I disagree. I love The Beatles. And no, not just 3 or 4 songs. Lots and lots of them! Just today, I put up a giant black and white poster of them on my wall. (I also put one up of Johnny Depp on the cover of Rolling Stone. Favorite actor! :D)

My favorite Beatles song ever (right now) and my favorite song at the moment is...



And just as an added bonus...



Isn't he just adorable?! All together now...Awwwww!!

I love this song. It just makes me soooooooo happy! :D

~Bef

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Zzzzzzzz...wait, what? It's day 10?

Today is the day I tell you about a song that makes me sleepy. Well, actually, I've found that it takes me longer to fall asleep if I listen to music because I sit there and think the lyrics and sing the tune in my head. So then I do not fall asleep very easily. Nevertheless, there are some songs that make me sleepy, just not asleep. Here is one of them!


Anastasia is an AWESOME movie. And guess what? I didn't see it till about a month ago! I couldn't believe I never saw it when I was a kid. But it's just great. <3>

~Bef

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Dancin' Feet!

First of all, I'm still only on day 9 of 30 days of music. So today, I will be sharing with you a song I can dance to!


I actually enjoy Elvis quite a bit. He makes me happy. Even some of his sadder songs make me happy. He's just an awesome guy! Well, his music anyways...And this song is just so perky and upbeat! :D

~Bef

Thursday, July 22, 2010

I'm Excited! And On An Unrelated Note, It's Day 8.

Today's theme is a song I know all the words to. :D This one is really fun to sing along with. I used to get tongue tied a lot on it because it's kind of fast, but I've gotten the hang of it.



Love it.

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On another note, I'm waking up at 4 AM to go to the airport to go to Linden, Guyana, South America!! :D And I couldn't be more excited!! Much to early to be awake, but it's worth it. I'm all finished packing...I think. I took my suitcase to the airport earlier to weigh it just to see and it was 56 pounds. 6 pounds overweight. So I transfered my hairdryer and some clothes to my carry ons. Hopefully that fixed it. I'm so bad at overpacking. D:

I'm excited to...

See the preacher Nigel and his wife and son

See my good friend Staci who I met last year along with other lovely people from the mission group that I met last year

See the many wonderful Guyanese people I met last year

Have discussions around the dinner table about our day

See giant, multicolored crickets

Eat Guyanese fruit

Look at the lovely landscape

See rainbows almost every day

Sing!!

Play cards with roomies

Assist in teaching class

Learn from classes taught by others

Learn from the examples of others

Sit in on Bible studies to gain more experience

Laugh a lot

Go to the market

Relax in the air conditioned house

Go on an aiplane

Witness baptisms

Be encouraged

Encourage

And much more!


And what am I not excited about?

Sharing a bathroom

The preposterous heat

The headaches that come along with the heat

Hurting feet

Daily power outages

Poor water pressure in the shower

Outhouses

No sleep (or not enough anyway)



Obviously, the good far outweighs the bad! :)

And thank you for your prayers! <3


~Bef

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Happy New Year's Eve!

I decided to do another post today simply because I am so, so behind and I got ready for church to start at 6 and then remembered it's Wednesday and doesn't start till 7!

So let's move on to day 7...a song that reminds me of a certain event.

I love Guitar Hero. Really. Not as much as I used to (which is a good thing...I got way too obsessed), but it's still a fun game to play. And where did I first play it? At the 2008 New Year's Eve sleepover at Sarah Wolfert's (now Tripp) and Lauren Anderson's apartment! Seems like soooo long ago. We played that thing to death. And there was this one song I just COULD NOT BEAT! So this song reminds me of that event.


Good times, good times... :)

~Bef

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Come Sail Away to Day 6

It's day 6! A song that reminds me of somewhere! Well...actually is very much after day 6, but this is where I am at the moment. :P

Almost a year ago now I went to Roundhouse for the first time! That's a Christian homeschool thing in North Carolina that lasts a week. I had a great time aaaand was baptized there, so I've got some good memories from there. :) And I have a song that always reminds me of Roundhouse!


One night at Roundhouse, there's a talent show thing, and one group played this. Which means we heard them ALL WEEK practicing this song in the Youth Activity Building (YAB). Which is where Macy and I were a lot of the time to get in from the cold outside. Yes cold. It wasn't supposed to be cold, but it was *freezing* in North Carolina! Felt like the middle of winter.

By the end of the week, we promised we never wanted to hear this song again not because it's a bad song, but because we were just sick of hearing it! But it's not too bad after all. :P Hey, at least we had background music to everything we did and weren't sitting there in silence!

~Bef

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Get You Some Crackers

Day 5 - A song that reminds me of someone.

I had to think for a while about this one. Usually, a song just reminds me of someone when I'm hearing it, but then I don't exactly make a mental note of that, so I just couldn't think of a specific song that reminded me of a specific person.

But I finally came up with Puttin' on the Ritz.



This song reminds me of my friend Sarah. We used to hang out ALL. THE. TIME. But I haven't seen her in like...a few years. Anyway, she had all this different music on her iPod (these were the days when I had horrible taste in music), and I seemed to like a lot of it. I really liked this one, and whenever I hear it, I think of all the good times I had with Sarah.





She was the one who helped me paint my room blue, orange, green, and pink.



This is the back of my bookcase.



She started all the splattering.

And the polka dots. And the putting of medals and ribbons on that polka-dotted ceiling.


Every time she came over, we rearranged the furniture in my room. I think we took apart my old metal bunkbed about a million times at 3 AM, being super duper cautious not to let it make noise.

We climbed on my roof and laid there for hours many times.

Don't worry, my room doesn't look like this anymore. :D It was fun while it lasted, though. :P

~Bef


Friday, July 16, 2010

Under the Bridge on Day Four

Day four: A song that makes me sad!

I guess it's just the general tune and lyrics of Under the Bridge by the Red Hot Chili Peppers that put me in this weird, sad mood. I like the guitar in the beginning.


It's said to be about a heroine addiction or something, but I try not to think about that.

It is a very depressing song, but I like it nonetheless. Oh, but I absolutely hate the part after 3:05 in the above video. I always skip to the next song on my iPod when it gets there. I just don't like to think or hear about someone under a bridge killing themselves.

~Bef


Sunday, July 11, 2010

Day Three! And Some New Shoes

Okay, so day 3 asks for a song that makes me happy. I had several songs to choose from, so it was a bit difficult. I narrowed it down, though, and in the end picked New Shoes by Paolo Nutini! My friend Lavonne introduced me to this song one day at fencing when I had just gotten new fencing shoes, and I've loved it ever since!





Every time I hear this song, it just puts me in a good mood! If I wake up in the morning and am tired or not in the best mood, I can listen to this song and it will make me smile and start twirling around as I get my morning tasks done! :D


~Bef

Thursday, July 8, 2010

30 Days of Music: Day Two

Alrighty, well my parents are still packing, so I decided to go on to day 2 of the 30 Days of Music. Least Favorite Song.

This song is despicable. It's called Bossy, and it's by Kelis. I'm not going to post a video because, well, this song is very, very dirty and I can't have that on my blog...or anywhere else in my life. That's one reason I absolutely hate it. Not only that, but it's ANNOYING! Every time I hear it or think of it, I just want to shoot myself in the foot! Her voice is whiny and gross. Sorry. Ick.

Spits on ground in disgust.

So there ya go.

~Bef

30 Days of Music: Day One

I know I'm behind on this. I know it, you don't have to tell me. I've been procrastinating like crazy on starting this 30 days of music thing because of the topic for the first day: favorite song.

Well, the straight and honest truth is that I DO NOT HAVE A FAVORITE SONG! I'm sorry.

So I decided to just do a song that I like very much because I could never pick a favorite. So here's the song. :)


Macy introduced me to this song about a year ago on the plane on the way home from Guyana, and I still love, love, love it, so it must be a good song for me. Usually I'm over songs after a year. :P

The official video is a bit creepy to me, so I just got one with a stationary picture. :P

I love the guitar at the beginning of this song. I think it's pretty. I adore songs that have a good beat.

I love how the two voices - male and female - of Seether and Amy Lee blend in this song. It's really gorgeous. I think that's the main thing that makes me like this song.

I love singing this song. Amy Lee's voice is a good match for mine pitch-wise.

I love the lyrics.

And I'm going to be out of town for the next 3-ish days at the Atlanta Aquarium, and internet costs 16 bucks a day at our hotel. So I don't see myself updating while I'm away. Maybe we can jack some connection off of chick fil a or something. ;) haha If not, I'll just get more behind.

One day down, twenty-nine to go!

That is all. :D

~Bef


Saturday, July 3, 2010

PBC 2010: What it Meant to Me

Well, well, well. It's been a while, hasn't it? I've kind of been putting off blogging simply because so much has been happening in the past two weeks. First I went to Palmetto Bible Camp for a week (of which I could write pages about every single day!), then I was home for less than 24 hours before I left to go to that pre-college creative writing camp at Coker College for a week (of which I could also write pages for every day!) I just got home a few hours ago. Oh, how I love being busy. :)

One of the best things about PBC this year was that Brian and Kristy Gray were able to come!! I was so happy when I saw them there! I loved getting to sit and talk with them throughout to week! :D Both of them are wonderful examples to me and others, and I'm glad to have them in my life!

Another great thing about camp this year was that we had 4 baptisms! The theme was 'Acts'tion Packed, so lots of the lessons really focused on conversions. I think that was beneficial to not only those 4, but to many others as well. It was kinda funny that Acts was our topic this year since we've been studying the book of Acts in our Sunday morning Bible class here at North Charleston. :) Macy won the individual Bible Bowl this year! Congratulations, Mae! Our team of Macy, Kimberly, Taylor, and I won the team part. Yay! We had an unfair advantage, though. ;) haha

We had lots of new people at PBC second week this year! Some friends we met at the Duncan youth rally last year who weren't at 2nd week last year got to come, so we enjoyed their company. :) I loved mealtimes at camp because we always got to sit outside instead of in the dining hall with Katrina, Kimberly, Michael, Macy, Kierra, and other good friends and have lovely (strange) conversations and just have a good time there together.

We had the most unproductive free time ever this year. Rest time was right before free time, so most days we got 1 1/2 or 2 hour naps. It was simply amazing. When we did wake up, we usually went and sat upstairs in the air conditioned ping pong room and just talked or played cards. Unproductive=awesome. :) Especially when air conditioning is involved.

Also on the top of the list for PBC 2010...we didn't have to clean the nasty, gross, disgusting bath house!!!!! :D Woo! Dining Hall cleaning is MUCH preferred.

One of the most precious things to me about going to Bible Camp has always been the singing. We do a LOT of singing at PBC to praise the Lord, and it is so uplifting! I just love it! We've been learning new songs the past couple of years, and I'm still trying to get used to them. At 2nd week, they have singing class where the male campers (and some staff) volunteer to lead a song, and I really like that because it gives young boys a chance to just try it if they haven't before. It's really great to see them having the courage to lead in the Lord's worship even if they aren't the most outgoing person or the best singer. :)

Campfires. I feel like I've been saying the words 'favorite' and 'best' way to much in this posting, but campfires are another of those. Have you ever just stared into the middle of a fire and tried to comprehend it's awesomeness? Cause it's pretty awesome. :P And then you add singing to a campfire...and viola! A perfect night.

Paintball. :D <3>

After we left camp, I kept thinking I saw PBC people everywhere I went. I'd turn around and be like, 'Hey, there's...oh wait, that's not them.' I miss them! :'( Next year is my last year as a camper. Imagine that!

Well that's all, folks!

~Bef


Saturday, June 12, 2010

Friends, PBC, and Blueprints! Thoughts and Plans of...me!

So I got this cool little font from Microsoft Word and copied and pasted it here! I love how the cursive looks. I hope it's not too hard to read. :)



Im so blessed at my congregation to have such faithful Christians around me all the time. To have faithful Christians my age as well as adults I can genuinely look up to as Chrtistians is something not everyone has. At the devo tonight, we sang some devotional songs and it gave me goose bumps. Just sitting there listening, looking around, it made me think how immensely blessed I am to have people here who are like that. They love the Lord and each other so much and desire to be together. <3 class="Apple-style-span" face="'Fiolex Girls'" size="x-large">Love them! I have talked to people from other congregations who wish they did activities like that. Apparently, there are Christians who don't realize how much it helps to be around brothers and sisters in Christ as often as possible. I don't know if they don't want to or don't have the time to set aside or what, but its so sad! Im so glad to be where I am. :)



What am I going to do at camp?? Were going up there next Saturday. Theres no internet and no cell phone service! Which means...I can't talk to people who are not at camp! Plus camp is hot (I hate hot) and cabin cleaning is no fun and we get no sleep, which makes me not feel well/up to par. But nevertheless, I am excited! Despite the downers, they are what make camp...well, camp! It will still be completely awesome...right? ;)



So Macy, Kierra, and I might be driving up to camp with me driving my car! :) Haha yay! Were super excited for that adventureIt would be the most fun ever for the three of us to drive up there! A good lesson in responsibility, right? Haha



Ill be back from camp between Saturday afternoon and Sunday afternoon, and then Im going to Coker College in Hartsville, SC for the Blueprints pre-college program. My mom entered me to win a scholarship for the program, and I did! :) It lasts a week, and I can either do creative writing or business (ew, business, sikko). Im doing the creative writing one. Even though I kind of hate writing (not blog writing; that's different) and am not the best at it and am not creativebut I mean, itll look good on a college application and it might be fun to live in a college dorm on a campus for a week, eh? ;) Theyre taking a field trip to Charleston (cause Ive never been there before haha), but Im not going on it anyway because Im staying in Hartsville to go to church services. They were going to be travelling back up at the time of church so it was either skip the field trip or skip the whole program. And its not like Ive never seen Charleston before, lol. Well, I suppose thats all for now. Im 4:30 AM and I have to wake up at 8:30haha. :/



As always, thanks for reading!




~Bef

Sunday, June 6, 2010

A Woman Approved of God

There are hundreds of Bible characters, both good and bad, both prominent and minor. Sometimes, though, the ones mentioned the least teach the most important lessons. Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, is only mentioned at a few brief moments throughout the New Testament. Mary was a woman who had her life the way it needed to be in the eyes of God. From her, I have learned several of the best life lessons: humility, how to keep my priorities in line, patience, and genuine love.



Imagine walking down dirt roads to go wherever you need to go. There are no cars, no bikes, and no paved paths. The shoes you wear are sandals; that is all you own. Just think what your feet would look and feel like after walking around all day in those conditions. This describes the normal scene of a day in Israel in Jesus’ time. The feet and shoes of every person were grimy and foul, which is why it is considered an insult in Israel, even today, to show the sole of a shoe to someone. That is the reason, also, why foot washing is a part of being hospitable and kind. In the town of Bethany, when Jesus ate with Mary, Martha, and Lazarus, Mary was the one to wash His feet. Mary not only washed Jesus’ feet, but she used very valuable “oil of spikenard” (John 12:3) and then wiped them with her own hair! Mary of Bethany was a very humble woman; she knew her place in the presence of the Son of God. From Mary, I have learned that it is better to have humility than to be too proud. For this characteristic of Mary’s, Jesus spoke well of her. She never boasted about her own accomplishments or good works like the Pharisees. She never thought herself too good to wash the feet of her guest. I cannot picture a Pharisee getting down on their knees to wash Jesus’ feet, much less using expensive oil on them or letting their hair even touch the feet. Mary was a deeply obsequious woman, and I have attained the understanding that I should try to be the same.



Mary cared more about others than she ever could about herself; she was a selfless human being, and it would behoove any person to apply that lesson to their life. A person will have a miserable life if they cannot stop thinking about self. In Luke 10, when Mary and Martha invited Jesus into their home, Mary sat attentively at Jesus’ feet, listening, not trying to speak up for herself. When Martha complained that Mary was not helping her with the food, Jesus told Martha that “Mary ha[d] chosen the good part” (Luke 10: 42). Sometimes it is hard for me to just sit and listen without interrupting, but this story has shown me that sometimes, it is more important to just listen than to do anything. It also tells me that Mary had her priorities in the right order; Jesus was first in line. During the scene in which Mary anointed the feet of Jesus, using costly oil and her hair as a cloth, one of His disciples, Judas Iscariot, reprimanded Mary for using such expensive oil when it could have been sold for money. On Judas’ list, money was obviously a higher priority than Jesus; that is a growing problem in today’s society, too. Jesus spoke up on Mary’s behalf because she had chosen the right path once again. Mary, through example, has informed me that my number one concern in life has to be getting to Heaven or I will not get there at all. No material items matter in the least to my eternal life. She has made me realize that it would be sinful to skip Church services for something like a party or a sports competition because that would be putting worldly concerns before God. After my physical body dies, it is not going to matter that I didn’t go to a friend’s 16th birthday party or didn’t win a fencing tournament. My goal in life is to go to Heaven and bring as many people with me as I can.



A third time Mary is mentioned is in Luke Chapter 11 at the death of her brother, Lazarus. Mary and Martha sent word to Jesus that their brother was sick and, after staying two more days in the town where he was, Jesus departed for Judea where they were. Jesus already knew that Lazarus had died before he got there, and when He arrived, Lazarus had been dead for four days. Martha ran out to him before he got into the city, crying, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died” (John 11:21). Mary, on the other hand, waited inside the house until she was called for by Jesus. She was patient until called, and then she arose and went to Him, saying the same as Martha. Both women displayed their faith that Jesus could have saved Lazarus, but Mary was more patient about approaching Jesus than her sister. Both, this story and the story in which Mary sat and listened to Jesus, show her patience and show me that patience is a needed virtue in life. Patience can be very valuable to my spiritual life and to my happiness. If I am always awaiting the next physical thing to come and do not appreciate or acknowledge what I already have, I will have a miserable life. If I do not understand and attain the virtue of patience, then I can never understand God either. Prayers are not always answered instantaneously. Sometimes, God tells us we must wait to get what we pray for; now is not the right time. I must be patient and wait for it to come without living in misery until that time. Patience is essential while on earth to gain eternal life in Heaven after this world.



Mary is a great example of genuine love. I Corinthians 13 explains love, and love is not just a feeling. The Greek language has several different words for different types of love, whereas there is only one in the English language. The one used here is agape, or God-like, love. I Corinthians 13:4 states that “love does not parade itself [and] is not puffed up,” and that is exactly what Mary displays through her behavior recorded in the Bible. It also says that “love…is kind,” and kindness is doing little things just because it will help someone or make them happy, such as washing their dirt-covered feet. According to the Bible, “love does not behave itself rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked” (I Corinthians 13:5). There is never a record of Mary acting rudely; she is always portrayed as a woman who is kind and carries herself well. She is never seeking her own, never looking out for her own interests only but, rather, the interests of others. Mary, also, does not seem to be easily provoked - she does not anger quickly and does not have a bad temper. When Martha complained that Mary was not helping her with the food, Mary could have come back with some hurtful, witty, surly comment, but she did not. Her temper was under control, which ties in to verse 7 – love “bears all things,…endures all things.” An example of genuine love is what I see in Mary – each thing in the I Corinthians 13 list of what love is or is not matches Mary of Bethany perfectly.



Mary, the sister of Martha has demonstrated to me humility, prioritizing, patience, and love, all of which are absolutely vital to attain a home in Heaven eternally. Even though Mary is not mentioned as often as characters like Moses, Joshua, and David, there are some very important lessons to be learned from her. Mary would have been a wonderful friend if I had been living in her time. I would have wanted and liked being around and with her. Mary was a Godly woman and spoken well of by Jesus on more than one occasion. It is my wish that I will be praised by the Lord as well.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Guyana 2009! :D

I am still raising support for my mission trip, so my mommy told me to write a letter about last year's campaign to some of my grandpa's kids. She said to write it like a blog entry, so that's exactly what I'm doing! Here goes.

Last July, I went to Linden, Guyana, South America and it was both the first time I had been out of the United States and the first time I had gone on a mission trip. I went with fifteen other Americans, five others from my congregation.

I didn't know what to expect, but it was much more than I could have imagined. We stayed at the house of the preacher, Nigel Milo, of the local church, Amelia Ward church of Christ. Guyana is very different compared to the US. Many houses are like one room on stilts; the shower we used was like a hose coming out of the wall; we had to use bottled water for drinking, cooking, brushing our teeth, etc; there aren't seat belts and there can never be too many people in one van, and the Guyanese people have heavy accents that take a while to get used to. Time is irrelevant: they don't have one thing scheduled after another like I usually do here; things hardly ever start on time, but no one complains when they run over time either. The singing in Guyana was amazing! Every one of them sings from the heart for the Lord. Whether they get the notes right or not, the singing is beautiful, and I can really feel the words that are being sung. It's all so uplifting!


We got there late Friday night and, Saturday, we went to the church. The people were so nice and welcoming. All of them wanted to shake our hands and talk to us. Sunday we had church services with several different classes going for different groups of people: kids, teens, adults, men, women, etc. All the kids LOVED to get their picture taken and them see themselves on my digital camera. It was so adorable. :) I think they really enjoyed and learned from the classes, as well.

Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, in the earlier part of the day, some of us went to a little primitive town about an hour out of Linden and smack in the middle of the jungle called Dora. The tiny church building was on top of a hill that overlooked a gorgeous river surrounded by tropical trees. Pictures just cannot do it justice.



I and the three other teenagers in the group each taught our own VBS class in Dora. I taught eight and nine year olds. We taught them a specific Bible story and then did a few fun worksheets and a craft each day! It was the first time I had ever taught a Bible class, but it was a great experience! I loved it! We go there to help the Guyanese, but I think it helps us just as much if not more!


There were over twenty-five kids in all!

After VBS in Dora, we would boat across the river or walk through the jungle to set up Bible studies at peoples' houses. This was another first for me and very encouraging to take part in and learn from! When we were done there, we drove back to Linden and had another VBS in the evening, Monday through Friday, at Amelia Ward church of Christ. The teenagers assisted in these classes.


Thursday and Friday, during the day, we set up Bible studies around Linden. It was amazing how eager those we taught were to learn and how willing they were to welcome us into their homes. During the span of the week, about five individuals were baptized into Christ, and many other Christians' faith was strengthened!


At the end of each day, we would all sit around the dinner table and discuss the days' activities. This was a great way to fellowship and realize the great work we were all involved in there!

We were all very, very tired and Guyana was scorching hot and it was hard work, but it was all worth it. By the end, I wanted to stay longer and it was hard to leave. It was the experience of a lifetime, and I cannot wait to go back next month, Lord willing!

In Christian love,

~Bef

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Time on my hands

What am I supposed to do with myself?! It seems like when I have so much to do, there's always something else I'd rather be doing! Now that I have nothing to do, I don't know what to occupy myself with! I did the dishes...I need to put some clothes in the washer. Yeah, I'll do that now...

...5 minutes later...

Done. Now what? I could cook something, but what to cook? I could go somewhere, but where to go? I can't nap since I just woke up 3 and a half hours ago. Hmmm...I could do that schoolwork I still have to do, but I was giving myself a week off since I'm technically out of school. I guess I'll just clean my room.

Oh how I love having so much free time! I'll enjoy it while it lasts. :D

~Bef

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure its worth watching.

Today is wonderful! It's raining outside, I had coffee, and I have a kitty curled up in my lap!


This one! <3>

On another note, I didn't get the job at Black & Decker. I'm fine with that since I didn't really want to work there anyways. I have another job interview next Tuesday at Journey's. I hope the Fudgery calls me. I would love to work there.

Friday before last we had a teen devo at Gary and Christy's house. We hadn't had one in a long time, so it was nice. I attempted to make cupcakes from scratch...eh-hem...attempted. ;) The peanut butter frosting was good, anyways. I'll try again later.



They look harmless enough, right? ;)

At least they were pretty.

Last Sunday I went to a gas station to use the vacuum to clean out my car (why in the world does 'vacuum' have two u's??), and it astounded me. I didn't even get the whole car vacuumed before my time was up and it shut off. I took the floor rugs out and beat them on things to get the dirt out...every time a new cloud of dirt would fly off. I beat it on the curb, the telephone stand thing, and...well, the back of my car (silly me). So the back of my car was caked with dirt. The inside of my car is cleaner than it was (WOO!), but I bet I could still get clouds of dirt out of the rugs.

I played a whole game of Monopoly yesterday! Can you believe it! :O

Kierra and I both want to lose weight, so we're working on it together. We've been trying to eat healthier things, eat smaller portions, and drink more water. We have also been working out every day (except Sunday...that's our day off). I just recently got a treadmill and an exercise bike in my house. Yesterday I ran/walked on it for 45 minutes! That's 15 more than my previous record. I ran for 7 or 8 minutes straight once! I think my previous time for that was 4 minutes straight. I then proceeded to use the exercise bike for 30 minutes. Half the time I used the pedals and not the seat (like an elliptical) and the other half I just biked. I was very proud of my hour and 15 minutes. :) Current weight: 145 pounds. I'll let you know if that improves.

There are now 18 days till we leave for Bible Camp! I've been getting excited about being there and all the fun we have. There is one thing I'm dreading, though...the sun. I HATE hot weather. D: But I supposed it's worth it. After that, Guyana. There are now 43 days till I leave for South America. I can hardly contain myself! Every time I see a plane, I get more and more excited. I have raised over half of my money now, which is good. 80% is due by June 15. Even if I don't get it, some other people have gotten extra that can cover where I am lacking. I can't wait!! <3


Fare thee well,

~Bef










Monday, May 24, 2010

If you want to feel rich, just count the things you have that money can't buy.


My name is Bethany, and it has been...5 days since my last posting? This is unacceptable. Now how do I choose just what to write about that happened over the past 5 days? Traffic court for expired tags? California Dreaming with sisters in Christ? Results of the job interview? The great teen devo? My atrociously dirty piece of metal on wheels? The new healthful lifestyle Kierra and I are taking on together? The LOST finale? Or maybe...all of these? Probably not, because I like to ramble a bit too much. ;)

Number one: Traffic court seemed intimidating to me before I went. I didn't know what to expect, but it was really nothing. The officer just called me up there, wrote something on my ticket, and told me to go pay $30 up front. The judge hadn't even gotten there yet.

There was a lady there who had a ticket for $89, and she told the officer she couldn't afford it that day. She needed 15 days to come up with it. This made me realize again how blessed I am. I am only a teenager without a job, and I could afford $89 if it was needed. I have so much wealth that I often forget how blessed I really am. My parents both have jobs and I have more than enough food to fuel me every day (which leads to the need for that healthy new lifestyle I mentioned). Though I am comparatively rich, I know many people who are even better off than I am. Their parents buy them everything they want, they have huge houses, expensive cars, every video game console I could ever want, 2 or 3 vacation houses on top of the one the usually live in, etc. Sometimes I look at them and think to myself, "I sure wish I had a house like that with 3 stories, 4 extra bedrooms, a pool in the backyard, a fancy dining table, a 100 inch television, etc." "I sure wish I didn't have to save up my own money to buy an iPod." "I sure wish we could afford to go on vacation to (insert destination here)." As appealing as material possessions may be, there are an abundance of Bible verses that warn against them. I just want to examine a few.

"Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.'" ~Hebrews 13:5 (ESV)

All I need is God. God is all I need. I have to remind myself of this all the time. I start telling myself that I am lacking in some area of my life, but then I must wonder if that flaw really has any bearing on my eternal soul. If not, I do not have to time to worry about it. For example, I recently rearranged my closet by color only to realize...I do not have a single orange shirt!! What a tragedy! Honestly though, I don't need to make an emergency run to the mall to buy an orange shirt and make my wardrobe 'complete'. If that's the kind of attitude I have, I could make a million more reasons to go out and spend my money. I'll be okay without an orange shirt.

"And he said to them, 'Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.'" ~Luke 12:15 (ESV)

I have seen/heard of many parents who, instead of spending quality time with their children, they give them quality things. They try to buy their children's love and respect. "Life does not consist in the abundance of possessions." Having designer clothes and spectacular light fixtures neither gives us life nor happiness. I would rather live in a tiny house with a loving family than in a mansion with a broken family any day. I picture a house where nothing is ever said between occupants; it's kind of like a hotel. Everyone wakes up early in the morning and does their own thing. Parents go off to work and children catch the bus to school. Kids get home and go to their room where they do who knows what and parents come home, pop a TV dinner in the microwave, and go to sleep. Their is no encouragement going on, no love being shown, nothing being discussed. They may seem happy, and even begin to believe it themselves, because of the physical comforts they enjoy, but what they don't have is that emotional, spiritual stimulation that every human needs because the Lord put that desire in us.

"And others are the ones sown among thorns. They are those who hear the word, but the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches and the desires for other things enter in and choke the word, and it proves unfruitful." ~Mark 4:18-19 (ESV)

Material things are deceitful. Deceit is one of the Devil's most successful tactics in drawing Christians away from the Faith and keeping non-Christians from ever being a part of it. He makes this world and the sins in it look so spectacular and beautiful and appetizing, but does not show us the part where we eternally lose our souls for a bit of physical enjoyment. Those "sown among thorns" hear the Truth, but are tricked into thinking that "riches and the desires for other things" are better/more important. In the end, though, "every knee shall bow" to God (Romans 14:11).

Of course, I am not saying that it is wrong to have material thing. There's nothing wrong with having a big house or a large TV or a Wii. The problem arises when one lets it rule their life instead of living for God. The problem comes when one is willing to work longer hours even if it means not having time left to spend with family just so they will have the money to buy that TV. The problem is present when saving up for an XBOX 360 cuts into the contribution one makes to the church or the money they are willing to spend to have someone over for dinner. The minute a person loses track of their priorities, there are a million things just waiting to jump higher and higher on the list that shouldn't be. The minute I put money before God, I have sinned.

"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." ~Matthew 6:33 (ESV)


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